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Print-style illustration of a hand holding a phone late at night: a thank-you message with a small heart sits typed in the draft box, the send button not yet pressed, beside an unsent envelope and a moonlit window.

PLATE VIII   Draft saved, 11:48 p.m.

NOTE 07 · CHAPTER II

The thank-you still in drafts

HABITAT    Text messages, letters, everyday relationships

People who wrote letters of thanks guessed their recipients would feel good. Recipients felt better than that, more surprised by what was said, and much less awkward than the writers expected.19 Writers worried about finding exactly the right words. Readers mostly noticed the warmth.

ALSO OBSERVED

The specific thank-you — this, on that day, and why it mattered — that gets reread later.

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